Wednesday, December 29, 2010

TMI on the wrong day...again

1. Is there anyone of your friends that you would ever consider having sex with?
There are a few friends, both men and women, who I have been known to fantasize about.

2. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night?
For me all are good.

3. What side of the bed do you sleep on?
The left.

4. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?
No.

5. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath?
Yes to both.  Have only in the shower once I was convinced I would slip and hit my head...sort of took the fun out of it.

6. Do you watch/read pornography?
Yes to both.  Well written erotica is incredibly sexy.

7. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
I like both.  Sometimes I want want to be passive and sometimes I want to be the agressive one.

8. Do you love someone on your blogroll?
No.

9. Would you choose love or money?
Love.

10. Your top three favorite kinks in bed?
Toys, another woman, another man.

11. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually?
No.

12. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex?
I've had a few very romantic places where I've had sex.  Although the location isn't what makes the most romantic times.  Those times I won't discuss.

13. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex?
In an apartment laundry room.

14. Have you ever been caught having sex?
Quite a few times.  All but one time was when I or the guy I was with had roommates.  Once by one of our children but luckily my husband and I were under a sheet and our child was hopefully too young and sleepy to have any memory of it.

15. Ever been to a bar just to get sex?
Yes.

Looking forward and back

Looking forward to the New Years Eve festivities our friends have planned.  These friends (S, the female half of the couple and K the male half)  have been our primary couple that we get together with for for several years now.  We always have a great time together and I'm sure this time will be no different.  I wrote in a previous post how I can't wait to get between S's legs and taste her pussy.  This doesn't mean that I am not also looking forward to K who is pretty amazing in his own right.  Them along with my husband it should be a fantastic night.  We are still waiting on the third couple, they are having sitter issues.  Damn, being a parent can sure get in the way of fun sometimes.

Looking back I've been thinking about a previous TMI post quite a bit in the last while.  Maybe in anticipation for Friday night.  An earlier post I very briefly wrote about my first experiences with someone of the same sex. 

As I wrote the first time I kissed a girl I was 11.  A girl in our class was being made fun of becasue she was supposedly a bad kisser.  My best friend and I didn't want the same shame brought upon us when it was our chance.  We decided to practice on each other first quick kisses and eventually we progressed up to open mouth kissing and using our tongue.  While it was exciting we were doing it for a cause, the prevention of social humiliation. Once we felt we had perfected our technique and we got boys to kiss us we stopped practicing with each other.

When I was 15 I started to become friends with a girl in my school, lets call her Carol.  We became friends because we were in several classes with each other.  She was nice and friendly and pretty cute.  There were some rumors going around that she had asked a girl at another school to kiss her and people teased her a bit over this.  I didn't think a lot about that as I had kissed a girl for practice and I assumed, silly naive me, she was looking to do the same. 

There was a party one weekend that I wanted to go to but knew I wouldn't be allowed to go to because there would be drinking.  Carol said I could tell my parents that I was staying at her place so they wouldn't know about my attending the party.  We went to the party and while I didn't get drunk I did get a bit tipsy and late we headed back to Carol's house. 

We got ready for bed and Carol told me she thought I was pretty and as I was always polite I told her she was too.  She then moved closer to me and kissed me.  I kissed her back.  We kissed until we couldn't stay awake any longer.  At some point her hand had gone up my nightgown and she touched my breasts.  I remember thinking I shouldn't be liking ths as much as I should be.

Sleepovers became a fairly regular thing for us either at her house or mine.  Soon we didn't bother putting our night gowns on since they never stayed on long. We would spend most of the night kissing and exploring each others bodies.  Panties stayed on for quite a while it took us both a while to build up the never to touch each other in that way.  Usually I followed Carols lead but I was the first to reach down between her legs and feel her moist panties.  Eventually panties came off and we were exploring each others pussies and fingering each other.  She was the first person to make me orgasam.

We never actually performed oral sex on each other.  I didn't really know about it at that point and not sure if she did either.  I was sexually active with boys but none of them had made an attempt to go down on me.  Boys had oral sex performed on them but nothing I had read about sex talked about it for girls.

What I think I liked most about my time with Carol was the fact that it was extended foreplay.  Guys, at least the ones I was with, only were interested in foreplay as a way to have intercourse.  Just enough to get them what they really wanted.  Making out and having sex with guys involved sneaking around and trying not to get caught.  Guys would never have been allowed in my room let alone stay the night.

Carol and I had our sleepovers throughout highschool.  The frequency changed as other things were going on in our lives (school, sports, work and boyfriends) but the times we were able to be together were always fun and enjoyable.  I look back at those times fondly.

Sunday, December 19, 2010

'Tis the season

I love this time of year.  It seems that the Christmas season and all that comes with it: food, parties, shopping, cool weather and a general festive mood all combine to make me very horny.  I want sex all of the time and luckily my husband is more than willing to help me out in my desires.  Can't always get the long drawn out sessions that we'd prefer but a quicky is (or two) is still ok in my books.

I'm anxiously awaiting New Years Eve. The last few months have been crazy busy and we really haven't had the opportunity to play with others as much as we would have liked.  The festivities are being held by our favorite couple partners and we always have a fantastic time with them.  The first thing I"m going to do is bury my face in her pussy.  It's been far too long since I've been able to do that.  Still waiting to hear about the third couple.  The anticpation of this is definitly adding to my horniness this season.

More TMI

1. Which would excite you more, watching or being watched?
I enjoy both but having to choose one I'd pick being watched. Why? You get to actually have sex and you are turning an additonal person on in the process.

2. If swinging, same room or separate room?
Same room.  It's a turn on to see him with others and he feels the same about me.  Also in my opinion it's best to know what your partner is doing and with who.

3. Preferred threesome: MMF or FFM?
I prefer FFM.  I get the best of both worlds although based on an earlier post you know I won't turn down MMF.

4. For the threesome, should the other two be two friends, two strangers, or one friend and one stranger?
Two strangers could be very sexy but I prefer it to be with at least one person you are 'friends' with.  The more comfortable you are with all particpants the more relaxed you are and therefore have more fun.

5. Booze or stimulants allowed or banned?
Some booze, not plastered but a couple drinks is always good.  In my books no drugs.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

New Years Plans

Plans for New Years Eve were up in the air until earlier today.  Confirmed today my husband and I will be spending the evening 'celebrating' with our favorite couple.  Still waiting to hear if another couple will be able to join us. 

I can't wait!

Monday, December 13, 2010

TMI - I know it's not Tuesday

1. How old were you when you have your first Bi experience?
Kissing 11.  A friend and I were very concerned with our kissing skills.  A girl in our class was being made fun of becasue she was a bad kisser and we didn't want the same thing happening to us.  We practiced quite a bit and it must have worked because no one made fun of our skills. 15 I first got naked with a girl and we made out and explored each other.  Went down on a woman when I was 19.


2. What was your largest group experience?
8

3. What is the youngest and oldest male and female partner?
Most partners have all been within a few years of me in age.  Only ever had sex with one person where there was a large age difference.

4. Ever fucked on drugs?
No

5. Have you ever had casual sex and not even asked there names?
No.  I always get names.  Might not remember their name afterwards but at some point I did know it.

Sunday, December 12, 2010

All I want to do...

is fuck.  The weekend surprise has had a wonderful affect of my sex drive.  My husband and I do have a very active and fantastic sex life but sometimes it gets kicked up a notch and thats where it is now.  Yesterday all I wanted to do all day was get back into bed with my husband once we got home.  Life gets in the way of what we want and what we should do sometimes.  Yesterday afternoon was spent with the kids and doing Christmas prep.  As soon as the kids were off to bed and asleep I was all over my husband and we had amazing sex.  Again first thing this morning I gave him a good ride to start the day.  Then to responsiblites of being a parent, which I do love.

This afternoon hope to have a few more rounds of great sex.  The kids have been invited over play with friends.  Waiting for my husband to get back from dropping them off.  We can do our annual fucking under the Christmas tree without having to worry about anyone walking in on us.

My pussy is going to be happy for Monday to arrive when the business of the week will give it a bit of a break.

Saturday, December 11, 2010

Weekend Surprise!

As mentioned in my last post, if anyone has actually read it, my husband planned a weekend surprise for me.  All I knew was it involved a night away at a hotel with no children.  That was good enough but I was hoping for better and as it turned out it far exceeded what I thought it would be.

As instructed I dressed up in a sexy little black dress and my husbands favortie lingerie.  We then headed into the city for our night away.  We checked into our hotel and found we had a beautiful room with a king size bed.  I was tempted to just stay stay there but my husband informed me we had dinner reservations at a resturant I was dying to try.  We had a wonder and romatic dinner.  We flirted shamelessly as we ate acting like a new couple not an old married one.  By dessert I was anxious to get back to our hotel room and have my way with my husband.  I let him know this but he insisted we stop by the hotel bar for a little bit for a drink.  I told him we could get something sent to our room but he kept insisting we go to the bar. 

At first I was not happy about this but then figured it was part of the evenings activities as he sat next to me running his hand up my thigh to my panties while we waited for our drinks.  His hand remained there when the waiter came over with our drinks.  Usually he'd briefly move his hand at the site of bar staff approaching.

Then someone else approached our table at first I thought it was staff but it turned out to be someone we knew, Mark.  A couple of years ago Mark and his then girlfriend were regulars at a couples club we frequently visit and we had the pleasure of spending some fun days and evenings with them.  Since their break up Mark hadn't been to the club and it was nice to see him again.  My husband asked Mark to join us for a drink and all started to have a good time catching up with each other.  My husband excused himself then Mark slid closer to me put his hand on my thigh and asked if I knew why he was there.  I responded with "you came here for a drink".  I was given a look that told me I was wrong and he squeezed my thigh.  It all started to become clear why Mark was there and why my husband inisted on drinks before heading to our room.  My husband returned and Mark said "I think you better let her know what her surprise is".  My husband leaned over and whispered in my ear that my surprise was to have both him and Mark that night, they would do whatever I wanted.  Well the smile that came over my face with that news was brighter than all the Christmas lights lit up outside.  With that news I said that we should get to it, time was not to waste sitting in a bar.

Before I go further I should say this isn't normally a surprise my husband would come up with on his own.  Usually we play only with other couples or on occassion single females.  We have had another male join us alone on a few occassions but it's not a regular thing.  A few weeks prior to this my husband and I had been talking of fantasies and I said it would be fun to do this again and he agreed.

When we got to the room both my husband and Mark helped me get undressed.  I know I started by kissing my husband then turned to kiss Mark.  As I was pressed against him I could feel him growing hard and knew that I had to do something about it.  I undid his pants and knelt down in front of him taking his cock into my mouth.  I had forgotten what at a great cock he has.  I then had him lay on the bed and went back to sucking and stroking his cock.  I knew this would have my husband turned on so I wiggled my ass as him.  He respondeing by coming over and fingering my pussy making sure I was nice and wet.  I'd been wet since dessert.  My husband then slid his cock into my pussy fucking me gently as I sucked on Marks cock.  They then changed possitions and I sucked my husband as Mark fucked  me from behind.  Mark was being as gentle as my husband had been and after a little while he came.  While Mark was recovering I climbed on top of my husband and rode him til he came. 

Next the men took their turns licking and fingering my pussy.  I came several times as they did this.  My orgasams made my whole body shake.  I was in heaven.  This helped the men get ready for another round.  I'm not sure what all we did and what positions I just know that I pretty much always had a cock in me or was holding one.  There isn't much better than that.

When I knew the night of fun was getting close to over I insisted we do one more thing.  I've only been double penetrated a couple of times and wanted to do that again.  All agreed that after such a great night that it would be a shame not to. 

My husband is the only one I will have anal sex with so it was easy to decide who would go in where.  My husband lubed up my ass really well and then gently inserted his cock into it and fucked me like that for a bit.  Just wanting to make sure my ass was up for what was about to take place.  Mark I must say really enjoyed seeing this.  My husband pulled out and I climbed on top of Mark and slid my pussy down over his very hard cock.  My husband then entered my ass and the three of us fucked like that.  What an incredible feeling it was.  Feeling two cocks moving inside you is amazing.  I came a couple of times.  My husband came first and not long after Mark did.

The men were done for but I wasn't quite ready to be done I wanted to cum at least one more time.  I instructed my husband to go to my bag and get my toy.  He knew what I was talking about I always travel with it when we go away alone.  He handed it to Mark and let him fuck me with it as she sucked my right nipple and my husband rubbed my clit and we kissed.  I had the most amazing orgasam after a few minutes of this.  We were all done at this point now.

Mark was going to leave but we convinced him to stay. 

Woke up in the morning to Mark lightly fingering my pussy.  My pussy definitly felt like it had many good fuckings the night before.  It might not have been a good idea to go at it again but to hell with good ideas.  Mark was getting me close to cumming and my moans woke my husband. He said it was ok for Mark to fuck me again so he  did.  I rolled to my side and Mark enterd me from behind as he fucked me I kissed my husband.  As I was being fucked by Mark I stroked my husbands cock feeling him get hard.  When Mark came and pulled out of me my husband slid in and fucked me until we both came.  What a wake up.

My pussy definitly feeling over fucked still but I don't want to give it any more of a rest.  Can't wait to get some alone time with my husband tonight.  What is is about incredible sex that makes you just want more and more?

Thursday, December 9, 2010

Don't know where to start

When I started this blog I thought I knew what I wanted to say then my head became a jumbled mess of ideas writers block struck hard.

I should have a good starting point this weekend.  My husband has something special planned for me but I don't know exactly what.  All I know is he's book a hotel (we are leaving the suburbs for a night), got a sitter for the kids and I've been insturcted to wear something sexy with his favortie lingerie.  I'm eagerly waiting to find out what's in store for me.

In the mean time I'll answer some TMI Tuesday questions.  Yes I know it's not Tuesday but hey I'm a rebel.

1. What is your underwear “style” of choce?
If I can get away without wearing it I don't wear any, sadly that is just at home.  Otherwise I like thongs and a sexy bra
2. How old were you when you had your first sexual experience?
Sexual experiences cover a lot of territory.  First time naked with a male I was 6 (so was he) playing doctor.  Was totally amazed with his penis and he let me touch it. First kiss I was 10.  First time I had sex I was 16.
3. What about a potential partner turns you on?
I'm a sucker for nice eyes and a great smile.  Large strong hands are nice too.
4. Have you ever played a game which may require you or others to disrobe?
Yes!
5. Given or received finger scratch marks during sexual activity?
I've given and received although never on purpose.
6. How many times is the most you have ever had sex in a 24 hour period?
10+
7. Have you ever had sex under the stars (i.e. in the alley behind Scores Gentleman’s Club, the roof of your South Beach condo)?
Yes.  Balcony, park, back yard, beach
8. Have you ever shared sleeping accommodations with someone of the without anything steamy happening? (Opposite sex for breeders, same sex for homosexuals).
Yes, but that doesn't happen often.
9. Have you used put anything edible on (or in) your partner’s body and then eaten it?
Yes to both.
10. Have you ever had an AIDS test due to reasonable suspicion or hyperactive imagination?
Never becasue I was suspicious or imagined that I had AIDS but for general health wellbeing
11. Have you ever fantasized about someone else other than your partner while you were engaged in sex, oral sex, or mutual masturbation?
Regularly and yes he likes that. 
12. had sex with someone ten years older or younger than you?
Yes
13. slept with a teacher?
One of my teachers: no.  A teacher when both were consenting adults: yes
14. had sex with someone within an hour of meeting them?
Yes

Sunday, December 5, 2010

Jumping in

Blogging is new to me. I have an idea of how I would like this blog to progress but time will tell how that goes.  As the title of this blog states I live in the sexy suburbs.  For those who may believe that it's impossible for the suburbs to be sexy I hope to prove you wrong.  Before I moved out of the city I never would have thought so many exciting things could happen here. In this blog I hope to share my experiences here.  Hopefully if I get any readers you will enjoy what I write.

My husband and I have a highly active sex life and enjoy bringing others in to join us. This blog is a story will be a story of our 'activities'.  Names will be changed to protect the (not-so) innocent.