1) Have you ever fantasised about a person of the same sex?
Most definitly yes!
2) Have you ever had sex with someone of the same gender or indulged in kissing/fondling?
Yes to both!
3) Do you find yourself attracted to people of the same sex sometimes?
Quite often actually.
4) Do you have any sexually transmitted diseases?
No
5) Have you ever had unprotected sex? When? With whom?
With my husband when were are alone together.
6) Do you have any fetishes - including foot fetishes, sadism and masochism etc?
A little light bondage perhaps.
7) How important is sex to you?
Extremly important.
8) How important do you think fidelity is, in a relationship?
I think couples should be open and honest with each other. I am against having sex with others without
your partner/spouse being aware of it. Having sex with others outside the relationship is fine if both people
in the relationship are knowledgable about it and most of all OK with it.
9) How would you react if you found out your partner were disloyal to you?
I know my husband has sex with other women, I see him doing that and I'm fine with it. Having sex with
multiple partners is something we both enjoy but we are always together when it happens. If he or I were to find out that the other had been secretly having sex with others we would be angry and hurt. That is not part of our agreement.
10) How old were you when you first kissed?
8
11) Are you a virgin? If not, how old were you when you lost your virginity?
Definitly not a virgin. Lost my virginity when I was 15.
12) Who did you lose your virginity to? What was the experience like?
The first time I had sex was with my boyfriend at the time. It was painful and over very quickly and I
didn't undertand what all the fuss was about. Sex didn't seem that great.
13) Which are the three people of the opposite sex you consider the most attractive?
My husband, Johnny Depp and Colin Firth
14) Have you ever been forced into having sex?
No
15) How many sexual partners have you had to date?
A lot, I stopped counting a long time ago.
16) Have you ever used sex toys?
Yes
17) Do you masturbate? How often?
Yes and how often I do can vary greatly. It can be a daily thing for a while then go weeks without.
18) Have you ever forced yourself sexually on a person?
No. I may have wanted sex with someone and made that clear but if they aren't wanting to I back off.
19) Have you ever had sex with a person significantly older or younger than yourself?
Someone significantly older (20 + yrs), all but one have generally been close to me in age.
20) Describe a sexual fantasy you would like to fulfil someday.
Group sex with just women. I'd like for 8 to 10 women to be involved. Why that number I don't know it
just seems like a good number to me.
21) Have you ever had a one-night-stand?
Yes, more than one or two or three....
22) Have you ever had sex with someone related to you?
Definitly not.
23) Have you ever picked up someone from a singles bar?
I don't think I've been to a 'singles' bar but in other bars yes I've picked somone up
24) Have you ever had phone sex?
Yes
25) Do you browse porn on the internet or on television?
I don't just browse I watch.
26) Which are the three people of the same sex you consider the most attractive?
Selma Hayak, Kate Winslet and Amanda Seyfried...I probably didn't spell their names right.
27) Have you ever paid for sex?
No
28) Have you ever been paid for sex?
No
29) Have you ever provided sexual favors to get anything in return, money or some other benefit?
I've probably gotten better meals in resturants but that was never my intention.
30) If your boss promised you the promotion you were very keen to get but insisted that you spend a weekend with him, pleasing him sexually, would you agree?
No, I'd want a promotion based on my ability to do the job not my ability to get my boss off. When I was
much younger (college) I did have a boss who propostioned me and it would have lead to some definite
perks in the workplace but I didn't take him up on it and found another jub quickly.
31) Is there anything you would want to change about the way you look through plastic surgery if you had the choice and could afford it?
No, generally happy with my body...it's far from perfect but it serves me well.
32) Would you pose nude for playboy if they offered you $1,000,000.
Possibly.
33) Have you ever been part of a sex orgy?
Oh yes!
34) Have you ever tied Tantric Sex? Would you like to?
I have tried it and I liked it.
35) Have you ever cross-dressed?
No. I do wear my husbands shirts sometimes but I don't think that counts.
36) Have you ever wondered what it would have been to be born as the opposite sex?
Yes, but I think everyone has at some point.
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30-something couple who plays well with others
Friday, February 4, 2011
Long delay, sorry.
My last post was just before New Years Eve when I was eagerly looking forward to fun with our favorite couple. It turned out to just be the four of us, the other couple that we had hoped to be there had childcare issues for that night.
A lot of it is a blur in terms of who did what to/with who but a few things do stand out in my mind. It didn't take long for the party to heat up, matter of minutes really. Our host let us in and moments later our hostess came downstairs in a short satin robe. I quickly got her out of that and while kissing and fondling her led her over to the sofa and dove between her legs. She tasted amazing and I quickly had her cuming. At some point she helped me out of my clothes, chosen for easy removal, and we were thoroughly enjoying each other so much so that my husband asked if the party private or could the men join. The husbands, it was easy to tell, had enjoyed watching us. I kissed our host deeply so he could taste his wife on my lips then slid down on his hard cock and fucked that way for a while. Our hostess bent over and let my husband take her from behind. I love watching others fuck that way although I was a little too preoccupied to enjoy watching. After that things get blurry, all I know there was a lot of kissing, touching and of course fucking going on. Let's just say I can't think of a better way to ring out the old year and ring in the new.
A lot of it is a blur in terms of who did what to/with who but a few things do stand out in my mind. It didn't take long for the party to heat up, matter of minutes really. Our host let us in and moments later our hostess came downstairs in a short satin robe. I quickly got her out of that and while kissing and fondling her led her over to the sofa and dove between her legs. She tasted amazing and I quickly had her cuming. At some point she helped me out of my clothes, chosen for easy removal, and we were thoroughly enjoying each other so much so that my husband asked if the party private or could the men join. The husbands, it was easy to tell, had enjoyed watching us. I kissed our host deeply so he could taste his wife on my lips then slid down on his hard cock and fucked that way for a while. Our hostess bent over and let my husband take her from behind. I love watching others fuck that way although I was a little too preoccupied to enjoy watching. After that things get blurry, all I know there was a lot of kissing, touching and of course fucking going on. Let's just say I can't think of a better way to ring out the old year and ring in the new.
Wednesday, December 29, 2010
TMI on the wrong day...again
1. Is there anyone of your friends that you would ever consider having sex with?
There are a few friends, both men and women, who I have been known to fantasize about.
2. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night?
For me all are good.
3. What side of the bed do you sleep on?
The left.
4. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?
No.
5. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath?
Yes to both. Have only in the shower once I was convinced I would slip and hit my head...sort of took the fun out of it.
6. Do you watch/read pornography?
Yes to both. Well written erotica is incredibly sexy.
7. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
I like both. Sometimes I want want to be passive and sometimes I want to be the agressive one.
8. Do you love someone on your blogroll?
No.
9. Would you choose love or money?
Love.
10. Your top three favorite kinks in bed?
Toys, another woman, another man.
11. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually?
No.
12. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex?
I've had a few very romantic places where I've had sex. Although the location isn't what makes the most romantic times. Those times I won't discuss.
13. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex?
In an apartment laundry room.
14. Have you ever been caught having sex?
Quite a few times. All but one time was when I or the guy I was with had roommates. Once by one of our children but luckily my husband and I were under a sheet and our child was hopefully too young and sleepy to have any memory of it.
15. Ever been to a bar just to get sex?
Yes.
There are a few friends, both men and women, who I have been known to fantasize about.
2. Sex in the morning, afternoon or night?
For me all are good.
3. What side of the bed do you sleep on?
The left.
4. Have you ever taken your clothes off for money?
No.
5. Have you ever had sex in the shower or the bath?
Yes to both. Have only in the shower once I was convinced I would slip and hit my head...sort of took the fun out of it.
6. Do you watch/read pornography?
Yes to both. Well written erotica is incredibly sexy.
7. Do you want someone aggressive or passive in bed?
I like both. Sometimes I want want to be passive and sometimes I want to be the agressive one.
8. Do you love someone on your blogroll?
No.
9. Would you choose love or money?
Love.
10. Your top three favorite kinks in bed?
Toys, another woman, another man.
11. Has anyone ever gone beyond your personal line of respect sexually?
No.
12. Where is the most romantic place you have had sex?
I've had a few very romantic places where I've had sex. Although the location isn't what makes the most romantic times. Those times I won't discuss.
13. Where is the weirdest place you have had sex?
In an apartment laundry room.
14. Have you ever been caught having sex?
Quite a few times. All but one time was when I or the guy I was with had roommates. Once by one of our children but luckily my husband and I were under a sheet and our child was hopefully too young and sleepy to have any memory of it.
15. Ever been to a bar just to get sex?
Yes.
Looking forward and back
Looking forward to the New Years Eve festivities our friends have planned. These friends (S, the female half of the couple and K the male half) have been our primary couple that we get together with for for several years now. We always have a great time together and I'm sure this time will be no different. I wrote in a previous post how I can't wait to get between S's legs and taste her pussy. This doesn't mean that I am not also looking forward to K who is pretty amazing in his own right. Them along with my husband it should be a fantastic night. We are still waiting on the third couple, they are having sitter issues. Damn, being a parent can sure get in the way of fun sometimes.
Looking back I've been thinking about a previous TMI post quite a bit in the last while. Maybe in anticipation for Friday night. An earlier post I very briefly wrote about my first experiences with someone of the same sex.
As I wrote the first time I kissed a girl I was 11. A girl in our class was being made fun of becasue she was supposedly a bad kisser. My best friend and I didn't want the same shame brought upon us when it was our chance. We decided to practice on each other first quick kisses and eventually we progressed up to open mouth kissing and using our tongue. While it was exciting we were doing it for a cause, the prevention of social humiliation. Once we felt we had perfected our technique and we got boys to kiss us we stopped practicing with each other.
When I was 15 I started to become friends with a girl in my school, lets call her Carol. We became friends because we were in several classes with each other. She was nice and friendly and pretty cute. There were some rumors going around that she had asked a girl at another school to kiss her and people teased her a bit over this. I didn't think a lot about that as I had kissed a girl for practice and I assumed, silly naive me, she was looking to do the same.
There was a party one weekend that I wanted to go to but knew I wouldn't be allowed to go to because there would be drinking. Carol said I could tell my parents that I was staying at her place so they wouldn't know about my attending the party. We went to the party and while I didn't get drunk I did get a bit tipsy and late we headed back to Carol's house.
We got ready for bed and Carol told me she thought I was pretty and as I was always polite I told her she was too. She then moved closer to me and kissed me. I kissed her back. We kissed until we couldn't stay awake any longer. At some point her hand had gone up my nightgown and she touched my breasts. I remember thinking I shouldn't be liking ths as much as I should be.
Sleepovers became a fairly regular thing for us either at her house or mine. Soon we didn't bother putting our night gowns on since they never stayed on long. We would spend most of the night kissing and exploring each others bodies. Panties stayed on for quite a while it took us both a while to build up the never to touch each other in that way. Usually I followed Carols lead but I was the first to reach down between her legs and feel her moist panties. Eventually panties came off and we were exploring each others pussies and fingering each other. She was the first person to make me orgasam.
We never actually performed oral sex on each other. I didn't really know about it at that point and not sure if she did either. I was sexually active with boys but none of them had made an attempt to go down on me. Boys had oral sex performed on them but nothing I had read about sex talked about it for girls.
What I think I liked most about my time with Carol was the fact that it was extended foreplay. Guys, at least the ones I was with, only were interested in foreplay as a way to have intercourse. Just enough to get them what they really wanted. Making out and having sex with guys involved sneaking around and trying not to get caught. Guys would never have been allowed in my room let alone stay the night.
Carol and I had our sleepovers throughout highschool. The frequency changed as other things were going on in our lives (school, sports, work and boyfriends) but the times we were able to be together were always fun and enjoyable. I look back at those times fondly.
Looking back I've been thinking about a previous TMI post quite a bit in the last while. Maybe in anticipation for Friday night. An earlier post I very briefly wrote about my first experiences with someone of the same sex.
As I wrote the first time I kissed a girl I was 11. A girl in our class was being made fun of becasue she was supposedly a bad kisser. My best friend and I didn't want the same shame brought upon us when it was our chance. We decided to practice on each other first quick kisses and eventually we progressed up to open mouth kissing and using our tongue. While it was exciting we were doing it for a cause, the prevention of social humiliation. Once we felt we had perfected our technique and we got boys to kiss us we stopped practicing with each other.
When I was 15 I started to become friends with a girl in my school, lets call her Carol. We became friends because we were in several classes with each other. She was nice and friendly and pretty cute. There were some rumors going around that she had asked a girl at another school to kiss her and people teased her a bit over this. I didn't think a lot about that as I had kissed a girl for practice and I assumed, silly naive me, she was looking to do the same.
There was a party one weekend that I wanted to go to but knew I wouldn't be allowed to go to because there would be drinking. Carol said I could tell my parents that I was staying at her place so they wouldn't know about my attending the party. We went to the party and while I didn't get drunk I did get a bit tipsy and late we headed back to Carol's house.
We got ready for bed and Carol told me she thought I was pretty and as I was always polite I told her she was too. She then moved closer to me and kissed me. I kissed her back. We kissed until we couldn't stay awake any longer. At some point her hand had gone up my nightgown and she touched my breasts. I remember thinking I shouldn't be liking ths as much as I should be.
Sleepovers became a fairly regular thing for us either at her house or mine. Soon we didn't bother putting our night gowns on since they never stayed on long. We would spend most of the night kissing and exploring each others bodies. Panties stayed on for quite a while it took us both a while to build up the never to touch each other in that way. Usually I followed Carols lead but I was the first to reach down between her legs and feel her moist panties. Eventually panties came off and we were exploring each others pussies and fingering each other. She was the first person to make me orgasam.
We never actually performed oral sex on each other. I didn't really know about it at that point and not sure if she did either. I was sexually active with boys but none of them had made an attempt to go down on me. Boys had oral sex performed on them but nothing I had read about sex talked about it for girls.
What I think I liked most about my time with Carol was the fact that it was extended foreplay. Guys, at least the ones I was with, only were interested in foreplay as a way to have intercourse. Just enough to get them what they really wanted. Making out and having sex with guys involved sneaking around and trying not to get caught. Guys would never have been allowed in my room let alone stay the night.
Carol and I had our sleepovers throughout highschool. The frequency changed as other things were going on in our lives (school, sports, work and boyfriends) but the times we were able to be together were always fun and enjoyable. I look back at those times fondly.
Sunday, December 19, 2010
'Tis the season
I love this time of year. It seems that the Christmas season and all that comes with it: food, parties, shopping, cool weather and a general festive mood all combine to make me very horny. I want sex all of the time and luckily my husband is more than willing to help me out in my desires. Can't always get the long drawn out sessions that we'd prefer but a quicky is (or two) is still ok in my books.
I'm anxiously awaiting New Years Eve. The last few months have been crazy busy and we really haven't had the opportunity to play with others as much as we would have liked. The festivities are being held by our favorite couple partners and we always have a fantastic time with them. The first thing I"m going to do is bury my face in her pussy. It's been far too long since I've been able to do that. Still waiting to hear about the third couple. The anticpation of this is definitly adding to my horniness this season.
I'm anxiously awaiting New Years Eve. The last few months have been crazy busy and we really haven't had the opportunity to play with others as much as we would have liked. The festivities are being held by our favorite couple partners and we always have a fantastic time with them. The first thing I"m going to do is bury my face in her pussy. It's been far too long since I've been able to do that. Still waiting to hear about the third couple. The anticpation of this is definitly adding to my horniness this season.
More TMI
1. Which would excite you more, watching or being watched?
I enjoy both but having to choose one I'd pick being watched. Why? You get to actually have sex and you are turning an additonal person on in the process.
2. If swinging, same room or separate room?
Same room. It's a turn on to see him with others and he feels the same about me. Also in my opinion it's best to know what your partner is doing and with who.
3. Preferred threesome: MMF or FFM?
I prefer FFM. I get the best of both worlds although based on an earlier post you know I won't turn down MMF.
4. For the threesome, should the other two be two friends, two strangers, or one friend and one stranger?
Two strangers could be very sexy but I prefer it to be with at least one person you are 'friends' with. The more comfortable you are with all particpants the more relaxed you are and therefore have more fun.
5. Booze or stimulants allowed or banned?
Some booze, not plastered but a couple drinks is always good. In my books no drugs.
I enjoy both but having to choose one I'd pick being watched. Why? You get to actually have sex and you are turning an additonal person on in the process.
2. If swinging, same room or separate room?
Same room. It's a turn on to see him with others and he feels the same about me. Also in my opinion it's best to know what your partner is doing and with who.
3. Preferred threesome: MMF or FFM?
I prefer FFM. I get the best of both worlds although based on an earlier post you know I won't turn down MMF.
4. For the threesome, should the other two be two friends, two strangers, or one friend and one stranger?
Two strangers could be very sexy but I prefer it to be with at least one person you are 'friends' with. The more comfortable you are with all particpants the more relaxed you are and therefore have more fun.
5. Booze or stimulants allowed or banned?
Some booze, not plastered but a couple drinks is always good. In my books no drugs.
Thursday, December 16, 2010
New Years Plans
Plans for New Years Eve were up in the air until earlier today. Confirmed today my husband and I will be spending the evening 'celebrating' with our favorite couple. Still waiting to hear if another couple will be able to join us.
I can't wait!
I can't wait!
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